She won't accept my apology nor will she speak to me, what to do? - how to write a wedding apology
It should be at the wedding of a friend in the past week we got into a drunken brawl at the bachelor party last week. I wrote a letter of apology, tried to call you again, and she did not answer, she replied with a text message "I have more energy for the time .... talk to you" I respected their wishes and not call at night before the wedding dinner, I asked (via text message, even if they do not) talk to me if it had never been in marriage and she replied: "There are still some unresolved problems: only called me once and never message ... "
Wtf is that? I was in a motorcycle accident and the money work for 3 weeks I could not really afford, my dress altered to maintain boots, wedding gifts and shower presents not forget the whole throwing the stupid bridal shower for her wedding. I apologize, but it was not the type who wanted to ..... she said no time or energy to talk to me, but to save time MYSPACE Doe !?!?! The dress has been changed and there and giveNo, I'm stupid of $ 250 in a brown dress that I can never use again and all because he refused to speak with me to resolve our conflicts.
Should I let her go (one of my best friends 9 years), or try to solve the problem? I do not agree with the whole situation.
Friday, February 5, 2010
How To Write A Wedding Apology She Won't Accept My Apology Nor Will She Speak To Me, What To Do?
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Call and leave a message if no answer the phone. Let him know that if you go by it do not hear back in a day or two days, we expect that as part of the wedding is over. Doing it with style I wish him good luck. Chalk It Up, a lesson learned. The transition from one form or another.
Call and leave a message if no answer the phone. Let him know that if you go by it do not hear back in a day or two days, we expect that as part of the wedding is over. Doing it with style I wish him good luck. Chalk It Up, a lesson learned. The transition from one form or another.
They should appear. You need not come soon enough to a scene and was then "solve this problem." Now is a first **** in this case. I want to say in one or two weeks, and explain your situation. If she does not agree with, go ahead. You can order your gift, but you can at least walk away knowing they've done everything I could do to save the friendship.
completely Bridezilla. Well, if your argument is only called once .... F her. Yes, a stressful time, but if you really stretched out his hand and not try to light the excuse again, "and said their identities's turn to come home
maybe write down what the argument was drunk. Review. must be very bad, it is now unstoppable. wait a few weeks, in order, reacess situation a cool head. and make amends.
Let me give you just a little advice here. If you use the word "bean" in his name in this forum, it is likely that no one take seriously.
Let me give you just a little advice here. If you use the word "bean" in his name in this forum, it is likely that no one take seriously.
Put clothes on ebay. Leave her alone, because friends do not need friends outside of marriage, especially when they are old friends.
Sounds like an episode of Bridezilla ...
let go. Bridezilla or not, she shows her true colors.
Let him go ...
He is selfish. She knew that you were at the accident and the money was a bit tight. It manages the money you spend must not only ensure that your day was perfect start. If it is really a good friend and I am sure that they have decided that argument, just a few minutes. I know it is a friend of 9 years, but how long can it take someone to. You're better off without them ..
Weddings are a tense time for people who try a little understanding for his friend. That sucks I know, because it seems you have tried to fulfill his midfield. You can not lose a friend loooot marriage lol It's like you to be there for them, no matter what.
Check this out has written a book about her http://www.badbridesmaid.com/
I saw the author interviewed and make the host of the show "Aaaargh, what happened to me and the bride was so unreasonable that destroyed our friendship!
It may come after a certain time, has to resolve once your blood a little. I was weak for some time.
Hey girl, I had said a similar experience with a member of my family for their wedding, which is planning several years ago, long before I married I was of course about the wedding, etc., and they had a question bridesmaid at her wedding, I accepted. Anyway, it was a measure of the dress that all girls must be b / c I wanted a unique style for your bridesmaids carry only a seamstress can create for ourselves, it was said that I would not be able to do that day , b / ci had to work because I had to work to pay for the dress, which BTW cost me $ 500, not to pay them, and while she lived alone, had to pay for rent, bills and school fees, because he is a etc.but FM, I decided that I attend the wedding hers.Anyways gave me the impression that he has nothing against the fact that I can not in a position to the dress that we had to do anyway, and I told him it would be important to her that I attend, I later in the night, just wanted to say, he came to the sewingLater at home, which was good with women always do when I arrived in the night, my FM was not there and the seamstress had my bills w / out the bride d 'being there, it bothers me, because before I talk about gone to work to achieve and to discover only that she was there, but he had, and I called and asked me if I wanted to come, I said it was the taste Soo in me that I was not the time when all other girls were there and did not want moment.So now I'm talking about in a state of confusion b / Cl can get 2 wonder what to do at this point, so I was told that I am the seamstress on another day with the bride be, and I tried to call me home left.When FM, and refused to pick, I humbled myself to her and apologized to her not all the time, the girls would always be there and hopefully she called me, but not . I already had a deposit on the $ 250 ik dress, but not yet received the measurements of the dress, the weeks passed, thoughept call my FM, which is not yet found any of my calls I finally went to his house and to my surprise I looked, and asked her to take one of my FM to my place in the wedding as a bridesmaid, I was in total shock, I went to her and asked her why the hell could not tell me anything about them before she went and asked a man to take my place, it was like my F'ing their marriage and they could do that f 'indeed, I also Bridezilla, so I approached her and said: Okay, okay, give me my F'ing $ 250 I already paid for the dress, and U could do what the f "U Want f'ing her marriage, she went for her purse and gave me my money and she gave me, and I had left.3 years later, he talked at all until my marriage and PPL, I said that I'm married, I tried to speak to the family as nice to me so she could get an invitation to my wedding, I invite you, therefore, that X-mas, which for a family reunion, and she came with her husband, and come with me, and she came to mee, and apologized for what happened, her marriage, it was stressed at that time very much and she knew that she reacts on the way they treated me, and I accepted his apology, and we still have with each other well, so in these words, I know that marriages can sometimes give u the stress and frustration, but I tell him his place and expect that everything will happen, but if the values of friendship Ur, have the right to The main thing is that u do ur part and apologized to her, now let him go.
Sometimes friends can not make sense, especially those close to you, me and her best friend to have 9 to 10 years had our struggles, and there is always one that is reasonable. You need a way to see them in person and explain how you can not immediately cash and clothing, because they automatically "later only worried about the money." Nknow what I said about the party, but what we are trying to address the problem of the past and to ignore the dominant and forth around the subject. Tell him to show him that your friendship means a lot to you, but you think will pass Selffish. will likely eventually have to spend, the sooner the better.
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